WOW......bobbijo.....wish I could have your mindset. I'm in a very very similar situation. Affair with best friend, been together since high school, one son 2.5 years old. Trying to face I'm going to have to let go of my high school sweetheart, the only thing I've ever known and loved. Let go of my family, etc. All of it. None of my needs are being met, I'm not happy, but scared very scared to be alone, scared I'm never going to find anyone. I'm reading Codependent No More. It's helping.
We're heading to counseling for the first time in two years today but frankly it's probably too late.
