So Mrs. T is back at home and GRUMPY,

I realize that she is miserable about the situation with her mom, although she doesn't talk about it.

I also know that she is not happy with our MR, although she doesn't talk about that either.

We didn't interact all that much last night, but this morning she was in a FUNK, lashing out at everyone - angry because we didn't have any bread, lashing out at the boys because they hadn't gotten themselves dressed, snapping at me because the waffles she was cooking burned, etc. I finally pulled her aside and said "Knock it off! Seriously!". She calmed down a bit, after that but is still not a happy camper.

I trying to walk a difficult line between being understanding and realizing that she is in pain from her mom's sitch, and maintaining my distance and the boundaries I have up due to our M sitch.

Her being home enables me to focus on my work a bit (which was really suffering over the past 6 days), but the home was definitely more relaxed when it was just me.


Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2
M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08
Walking away from a bad situation.

My Sitch

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