Hi Naej, thanks for your good wishes! Ah, that could be tricky for him to choose.. we both hate gold jewellery and diamonds and he knows I like hand made unique rings..he probably wouldnt know where to start!
Its actually more him than me, he wants us to have children, but I'm not 100%. Rather than cement our R, one of the reasons I'm not sure I want a family is we are so 'together' and loved up I'm not sure I want to introduce a massive distraction like a child!! So it is a dealbreaker for HIM I fear, but not for me. What concerns me about having kids is I know his depression will never go away completely, so I wonder how he'd cope with the stress and how I'd cope with him and a child.
Yeah, I guess the past 2 years has changed my views alot and I really do want to get M now! So M may be a deal breaker for me, but not children. BUT he may leave me one day if we dont have kids...?
Yeah I have come far havent I? I applaud anyone who gets over an affair or a gf. Theres always reminders, like back home this weekend - his brother may have a new house, but we still stayed in the same spare bed he and Helen shared..its a good job I'm so easy going!! We 'christened' it though, as he put it.. xx
