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[wolverine1997]

I've talked to two different lawyers who both told me the same thing, that I need to file first. I really don't see how that helps me since I'm trying NOT to get divorced.

Since I found out that my wife has gone to see a lawyer I have been very paranoid. Over the last few days my wife hase been gone out of the house and it doesn't appear that she has gone where she said she was going. One day she said she was going to the grocery store, was gone for hours and only came back with a small bag of fruit. She told me that she went to the store and then had lunch with her cousins. Yesterday she said she said that she was going to the mall to get our son a new coat. After being gone for a few hours she came back empty handed and said that they didn't have his size and that she ate dinner at the mall. I figure that both times she went to see the lawyer and she doesn't want me to know. I keep checking the website for the local circuit court to see if she has filed for divorce but so far nothing comes up.

I think she knows that I have have been snooping around. She is very guarded about her purse now. She takes it everywhere she goes and keeps it in her sight at all times. Even when she is in the bathroom.

In a way I wish that she would just get it over with. I'm tired of all of the uncertainty. It doesn't appear that she is going to change her mind. I think something drastic like an act of God would have to happen for her to reconsider her actions.