Just my 2 cents - and this seems to be true with my sitch anyhow - if they want a D, they will close the door and get a D. Not only did she stick around past the 6 mo.s, she did a 180 about MC. That is huge. When you feel disappointed or down, repeat after me "she admitted that reconciliation is possible. She admitted that reconciliation is possible." If she calls you by your first name, you say this to yourself. If she retreats to her own bedroom, you repeat this to yourself. That's more than a lot of folks on here have to hold onto, so hold onto it yourself.
Looks like you and I are starting MC at the same time. My H actually gave me the green light to make an app. for MC after thanksgiving. He's complaining all the way, but he said he would give it a try. So we have that. PMA.