actually it isn't really funny because he truly has a problem and he has absolutely NO clue how to fix it, and too "wallow in his sadness" to want to fix it, and all these addictions just give him a temporary fix. he's going to live a horrible life until he figures this out.
you've got so much over him, and so much of a future ahead of you, as long as YOU don't wallow in it.
It's unfortunate you live in such a small town where everyone tells you everything that's going on. But you can be uninterested and/or tell them that your not.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
