i read some other posts and some advice came from a man that said to have your spouse believe or see you are dating someone else. I would love to do that, just to have conversation, in light of being pregnant and showing how or should i be doing this? just adding another complication.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline