You sound like you handle this MLC stuff so well!!!
LMAO! No, I don't. I just had to back off and not make myself so crazy with it all.
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So has your H joined you for the holidays previously?
Yes. He has even gone on vacavtions with us. Surprises me every time. Does it mean anything? Not really. Do I think he's changing his mind and re-thinking all of this? No. I'll think that when he says something to that effect.
What I do think is that he has an avoidant personality thing going on. So, that could mean it will be along time before he does anything (like filing). Will I? I don't know. No time soon though.
I know the non-response and "I don't knows" when asked questions. My H has gotten a little better in the last few months. I just take anything like that as a "no, thank you".
Let your D ask and they will find a way to communicate (or not). I hope they do. My D's are still working on it (well, as much as teenagers work on communicating with parents).
Regardless of what he does. Have a great time and take lots of pictures!
