sounds all too familiar. My XW has tried to "patch" things up for whatever her motive may be, but each and everytime she goes down the path of pointing fingers and tossing accusations and pushes me further and further away. My stance is that I no longer have anything to lose by not speaking with her and going down that pointless path with her. If she wants to make amends, again for whatever reason, she needs to lose her hate, anger and angst against me that she still proclaims is valid for her to run off with someone else and destroy our children's lives. Until that mood changes, to me she's just screaming "why did you drop the net, you're supposed to catch me!', and I'll have no part of it. Sounds like your H is in the same boat.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
