One thing that I am finding very hard is that we still live in the same house and sleep in the same bed.
W is treating me pretty rough at the mo, and often snaps at me or does not even respond when I ask her something, but she is very quick to ask me to help with S or if she can use the credit card to buy food etc. She does not have a steady income and will not be able to support herself or S at the moment.
She will also make plans and not check if it is ok if I look after S, goes to Gym in the morning and I must be home for S if he wakes up. I cant go for a run as I need to leave for work when she gets back.
I have reacted for the last 6 weeks on a weekly basis, and really want to detach and drop the rope, but its almost like I am scared to lay the boundaries as I am not wanting to push her further away than she already is.
Any wise heads have any input on how to do this, I know it is necessary, but having a hard time implementing it.
M: 30 W: 32 Married: 9 years s: 2.8 Bomb dropped: 7-10-09 same house, bed, no physical contact My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1871805&page=1
