If it feels absolutely right, do it. If it feels wrong, don't. If you can't decide or keep waffling, don't.
There's no reason to fall on a sword for what you think is 'right'. Consider what is healthy.
*hugs*
and G'Man.. puhleese stop pursuing your wife. I saw how you hugged your son, how full of love you are for your family and I can only imagine how much this hurts you. The woman who's divorcing you is not who you asked to Thanksgiving.
