Sounds to me like he's trying to overcompensate to you in order to make him not feel so guilty about leaving the marriage. In his mind he's not as bad a guy because he "took care of you" in the proceedings.
S4H
Ah yes, the typical narraccistic martyr syndrome. He can show everyone how good he is to me thru money. I would give my everything to have my H back in whole. I just don't know why he did so good then went downhill again. He sure fooled me.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too