Originally Posted By: mindfull
Sandycay... Wow... a lot has changed for you!!

How old are your kids? Just realized we're the same age.
Son 15 Daugher will be 13 on Sunday
FL would be a MAJOR move for you, and he's willing to go along w/it, when you have kids? Wow. Yep, he doesn't question it, it's where we moved from... the kids have been in the school district before. H family is from there so lots of family for the kids and I have a great network of friends there. Plus the housing market it so good right now and we were always going to move back there and retire so I have no reason to stay here when I prefer there.

He is generous. I don't remember. Is there an OW involved? Sounds like he's trying to buy freedom, and not thinking... And not digesting... There was the 1st time in Jan08... I don't see any signs except for his erratic behavior...seems gambling could be the OW .... I certainly don't rule it out, but it doesn't really matter if he's porking Big bird at this point... he has now hurt the children and Mommie don't play that.

Hey, one positive note! You won't be a broke single parent! We have to have SOMETHING to smile about!! smile WE shall see

Be well, my friend!


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too