Hi Cutter, They know there are struggles in our M which my H has owned as "his issues" and "nothing to do with your mother". But they do not know there has been an A. They know dad has been considering a temp. separation but that I am opposed to the idea. Oldest S18 has come to me directly to ask if there is "more to dad's issues" than what he has told them and whether i am afraid of infidelity if we separated. I answered yes to both these questions and encouraged him to discuss these things further with his dad.
