Sorry Cutter, I would advise against this. My reason being that you will never know what will happen in the future with this friendship. (Just like you would never have predicted what would have happened in your marriage)

Another reason I do not think this is wise is because of the past relationship of these two people with your WAW. All it takes is ONE misunderstanding in the future. They would get upset with you for whatever reason and EVERYTHING comes out (and the wrong way.)

Please trust me on this. If this man does not take you at your word as a man right now, what kind of friend is he? You do not need to prove your friendship by revealing your deepest, most sensitive thoughts. This all comes down to a matter of trust.

For your own protection I implore you, find another way.

M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT