Yeah, that's my mistake. The "not your problem" bit has always been a problem for me So let me clarify a bit on my take and see if this makes sense... for me personally I mean: "I will avoid dwelling on it. I have to stay away because my help will be rejected and misconstrued. There is nothing I can do and if I do anything it could lead to pulling me back into the emotional mess I'm trying to recover from." ... so yeah.. NMP is my way of saying that.. just gotta be more clear on that in the future.
I can understand this. And all the rest, of course, but this point of yours felt more like a personal sharing (which in a way, is exactly what we do here). Thank you.
Last edited by Gardener; 11/24/0905:17 AM.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
So let me clarify a bit on my take and see if this makes sense... for me personally I mean: "I will avoid dwelling on it. I have to stay away because my help will be rejected and misconstrued. There is nothing I can do and if I do anything it could lead to pulling me back into the emotional mess I'm trying to recover from." ... so yeah.. NMP is my way of saying that.. just gotta be more clear on that in the future.
