Ring On or Ring Off????

[MHL]

I took mine off after I found out about my W's second A. Want to try to GAL and show her that if she can move on I can too. But I find myself wanting to put it back on lately. Not having it on makes me think about me but I know when people see me and notice it I tend to feel uncomfortable. I don't want to be defined by her even though I still love her and like the idea of being married especially when you have kids.