WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

I have picked them up Fri after school and she picked them up from me on Sun at 7:30 PM since I started working in NY

Prior to that I had them on Thurs after school, Fri, Sat and she picked them up on Sun at 8:30 am. We would alternate Weds.

So pretty much she has had every Fri & Sat nite free since she moved out

She has said that we need to go back to what we had done now that I'm back in Pa. I told her BS as I want to see them as much as possible and now that I know the truth, I will not give her every weekend off again

So the options on the "table" are:

1) Alternate weeks. Not a fan to that as I don't want to not see my boys for 7 days

2) 2/2/3 - MT with one parent, WTh with the other and alternate FSaSu. Not a fan as it seems disruptive to have the boys move evey 2 days

3) 3/3/1 - SuMT with one parent, WThF with the other, alternate Sat (pickup at 7:30 pm) so both parents will have at least one weekend day with the children. I prefer the SuMT as I've been taking the boys I church with me. Something she never did even before she left.

Curious to any feedback on the 3 options