By your timeline, it took you 140 days (80 to 220) after she admitted to having an affair, to suspending friendliness.
Throughout this period, I challenged you on not just the friendliness, but specifically the "rescuing" behavior, where you used your humor and pithiness to diffuse potentially confrontational situations with her.
You defended yourself, saying that you wanted her to be happy.
Now, after she moves out, and you're headed to divorce, and you're livid with her.
There's something around D+220, about this public pronouncement she made about Schmuckatelli #1, that really got under your skin. Something WAY out of proportion to your responses to everything else, at least from where I'm sitting?
