How far apart are you on the custody discussions? (If I may...) My D18 is actually my H's step-daughter. I was married for a short period of time right out of college. I can give you some advice... The kids do better if they're not bounced back and forth a bunch of times a week, and if their schedule is consistent, not cyclical. I know your boys are young, but they need constant blocks of time, and they shouldn't have to get a calendar out to figure out whose house they'll be at in two weeks on a Tuesday. It should be easy, and chunked into blocks of time.
Just my two cents!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
