lucky, i haven't read your whole stitch but our stories are sooo similar it's scary. i also know that my hubby is suffering with depression but he won't do anything about it. he has even admitted several times that he is depressed but doesn't want to take any meds and is scared to actually go and get it diagnoised as fear of being labeled "crazy". It is soo hurtful to know that most of our hubby's thinking could be lifted if they dealt with their depression. our stories are also similar in that hubby's changes started a few months after we found out we were expecting our first child together. my hubby has constantly said that his life went from great to lots of pressure all in the course of two years...(1) graduated from college (2) had 1 child (long story...we were taking a break and he slept with one of his friends) (2) proposed to and married me (3) found out i was preggo (4) relocated twice due to his job and second location is far from our hometown and he has a very stressful job with more responsibility. WOW...i will catch up on your stitch and I hope both of hubby's get some help for the depression.


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo