I just talked briefly with my XW's good friend. She is going to divorce her H of 8 years. I remember her telling me when I was going through my crisis that she was not happy with him as he was not a leader for her as a husband should be. It is a shame as he is a nice older guy, but I had noticed that he was a metrosexual kind of man. At least they dont have a child together so it wont sting as bad, but it still sucks to hear of people getting divorced. This will be her 3rd D and his 2nd.