Help... I need to stop reacting!

[TrentC]

So.... by all accounts.... DBing is making progress in my sitch... bit by bit... but still progress....

any theories then about why I am feeling so down? LIke, seriously, seriously down?

Because you miss your spouse. You miss being able to hug them, or kiss them, or snuggle with them, or make love to them the way it was when things were better.

Because you want it to be better now. You want to enjoy the relationship that you had before the bomb (or better).

Been there, done that.