The good news for me is that I am not having much of a problem finding other interested woman. I have had phone numbers given to me, been asked out for dates and seem to have most of the woman I show intrest in return the intrest favorably. I have done some dating and have enjoyed making new friends.
I guess that I am lucky that way. I am not great looking but very comfidant and I have a good attitude most of the time
The only person that I seem to really have relationship issues with is my wife right now. She was crazy about me before her affair but that has seemed to kill all feeling for me and now anyone else but me is perfect. Is it the guilt from the affair? Is it the fact she still knows I love her so she is just bored?
It is weird, the only person I want to impress or have attracted to me could care less and the other woman in my life seem to be excited to be part of my day.
Maybe when I really make that full shift were I do not care about my wife she will get the same feeling the other woman do.
I am going to try the advice that you have all given me and see if I can walk away faster than she can. She is pretty fast at this point so we will see what I have in these legs.
What do I have to loose?
Me 33 WOW 31 Married 12 years 4 YOD 1 YOD(adoption process) Bomb & moved out 4/01/09 Divorced 12/17/09
