Hi MT21 go read my stitch. I do not know why but I think there is going to be some very similar parts in it. Just read the first two pages.
Do you love your wife ?
Are you willing to fight for your marriage and your daughters?
If there is another man, is it a deal breaker?
First things first.
Stop doing what your doing right now. No booze at all the next little while. Lots of water.
You need to screw your head on straight. You also need to keep yourself busy.
Now answer those questions.
Also add in any details like how else your wife changed. Appearance, weight , exercise, 180's , staying out late, perhaps a mentor at work .... etc....
It will help with your situation.
If you suspect the OP. Do not reveal it until you have proof. Gut feelings is usually enough. But you need proof.
So emails, facebook all that. Web browsing history. Check it all.
Does she guard her blackberry or phone?
If not you need to look at it.
If your computer smart you can just back it up to the computer.
You also need to start acting like the WAS your self.
But please do answer the questions.
DO NOT DO SOMEHTHING RASH LIKE LEAVING YOUR HOUSE OR BED. IF YOU HAVE CLAIM IT BACK.
DO NOT BE AFAID OF YOUR WIFE. SHE HAS ALREADY LEFT.
DO NOT TALK ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS.
IGNORE HER FOR A DAY OR TWO WHY YOU WORK THIS OUT.
