I will Puppy. I'm very fortunate in addition to this online support community to have several very supportive friends.
I have to accept that he's still working through his own MLC right now and is just not going to be the person I know and love right now. I do get glimpses of that person every now and then which gives me a small dose of hope.
The arrogance/entitlement/victim playing is just really hard to take at times. However, in light of what some folks are going through on this site I count myself as very fortunate. At least my H is trying to make our marriage work - if only on his own terms right now.