The three older kids said no on the sleepover, and I'm not going to force them. The drop off is now a non-issue.
However...
Things are currently getting a little hairy with H. I asked him how much $ he planned to provide, and he said he'd give me what the child support calculator requires. I wrote back this...
I need a concrete figure. Something I can count on so I can know exactly where I stand. So I can know how much I need to make up. Obviously after you file and get the divorce, I'll only be entitled to whatever I am given. Right now, we are still married and community property and I am entitled to at least half of what we have.