I'm planning to help with the move. No real motive behind it. I don't really want other people coming in my house hauling stuff out though. She doesn't even want much from here. Not sure if she feels bad about taking stuff or just doesn't want anything from our life together.

She still hasn't told S that she's gotten her place and is going. (He knows that she's planning to go, but I don't think he really gets it)

I think she wants to have Thanksgiving here at out house believe it or not. We haven't discussed it though. We haven't talked about much of the details.

I'd rather not have Thanksgiving with her. It may be good for S though. I'm not sure what to do here.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.