<<If he was really 'into' (committed, dedicated, etc.) me, he wouldn't have to keep trying to convince himself to have feelings for me. And I don't want a husband who has to 'sell' himself on the idea of loving me. No thank you.>>
Agree 100% and don't forget actions speak louder than words....we could ALL take a lesson from what you wrote above.
In his defence, if it is not there it is not there. He may be dragging his feet but he is not playing games...from what you have written recently. That also helps us to move on....
