So I have asked my mom and 2 friends about cutting down the tree and they all said "yes!" right away. They also thought it was good that I just said "let's see how it goes" for now...not too eager.

This morning he has sent joky texts...my old DH. I admit that I sent some joky ones back. I am so worried about getting too hopeful but I am protecting myself, too. This is the risk I am taking with this plan after all (cake eating)


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004