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Starting to feel better w/in the last hour or so... Could the two shots of antibiotics and three oral doses FINALLY be working?

Also, I think I'm coming out of the funk.

I need a plan.

Also, just got confirmation of my cardio appointment on 12/1. They're most likely going to be doing an ablation on me. Just read up on it. Doesn't sound pleasant. Good Lord! I feel old!


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I need a plan.


Start with the end in mind.

Make a list of things you haven't tried.

Figure out what is holding you back.

State your goals and move forward.


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((((((Mindfull))))))

Go back to your goals for YOU! You were feeling a lot better when that's where your focus was!

Did you get a FB alter ego? We want a way to keep up with you! And make sure you are taking care of yourself!

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Coach and Jeff:

I'll work on what you recommend. I'm too much in pneumonia fog to think that hard now. I'm only capable of being silly and flippant at the moment. (Shouldn't have had a glass of wine on top of all of this medicine... thought it might help me sleep!)




So, S12 went to the movies w/friends. S10 went to a hockey game w/friends... D18 is hosting the "coming home for thanksgiving" party at her apartment tonight... H won't be back from out of town until almost midnight.

GEESH! Glad everyone's concerned about my health!!!

LOL

WAAAAAAAAAAA!

They're lucky they didn't ask me for a ride anywhere!

At least the dog won't leave my side.


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Still feelin' like poop!


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Have the dog fetch you some theraflu, then hit the hay.


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Feel better, darn it!

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Hey girlie,

How are you feeling?

Update please?


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Sick of bein' sick. Thank you all for checking in... smirk


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frown I'm sorry.

I read about the catheter ablation, although it sounds way better than opening a person's chest! but still not fun at all.
Can I ask if you decided to forgo the mv? one of them is specifically for heart health and it would definitely knock out whatever virus you got going on now.

so, your wanting to make a plan. I think that is good, and coach gave some good steps too.

even though everyone was gone, it might be good to just have some peace/quiet for you for a bit. Of course you deserve some pampering too. wish I could help with that!!


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DB 5/2006
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H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

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