Totally on the nail there Cas! He did/has neglected himself and doesnt think he is worthy of looking after, but funny enough moving three counties away hasnt made a lot of difference, financially he hasnt been able to pursue that much! I think my S had the right idea. H went looking for greener grass, hes now found out its not greener but hes none to keen on coming home as the grass is now really brown because of the mess he has caused/left behind! Even though I have GAL and done 180's for me I can't make the grass greener here until HE gets a job. I cant move on without the maintenance he will give me and without a job he cant pay that! I have wondered especially as Coach mentioned that men like to be the providers that he wont come home until he can provide again!
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