One of the points of boundaries is defining where my responsibilities ends. Once I determine that, it is easy to see where everyone else's responsibilities start.
Just asking my self the question "Who's responsibility is this?" is a great start.
I am responsible FOR me and TO others. Take care of me first, then I have more to give to others.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712