Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[Sanderika]

(((((Kissak)))))

I come by everyday to see if you have updated. Your sitch has been of great interest to me, as it is close to mine. I admire your strength and manner in which you have handled this all.

I am happy for you.....time is proving to mend the problems with your H and in your marriage.

You will work through this with H. H appears to be working through his problems and I think a "snail's pace" is best. You often hear....when it is rushed, it fails and things end up right back at square one. You are strong and capable of making the right decisions.

It must feel good to have him around more often and I can see the questions and excitement in the kids. I think you are wise to remain cautious and reserved about your heart. After what he has put you through.....a "snail's pace" for you is best too.

I would think by your continued treatment towards him as kindly and a caring friend will bring him back. You have remained true to him and he is trusting what he sees and feels is genuine. (I have used the same towards my H) Your H is realizing where he belongs and I can imagine he is finding comfort in the thought more and more everyday. I do believe they have to be comfortable and certain to take the walk back.

I hope for you, he is genuine too.

Take care, my thoughts are with you everday.....patience and time seems to be the remedy.

Happy Thanksgiving to you all.....

Sanderika