I still think what I have always thought of Signore S. He is unattainable. Catching him is a figment of the former Mrs. SP's imagination. He has the status of Rockstar to women everywhere -- rich, extravagant, flattering, and single. But he is Peter Pan, and he won't be caught. He has no interest in eating fruit from the same tree for any length of time. She can chase, and friend on FB, and every other demeaning little act she chooses, he is not asking for her attention. He did not destroy your marriage, she did.