Through my work day I've thought about boundaries. when I of course drive to get D2 i'll drop them off at his mommies. I don't want to get into any verbal anything with him, i have a hard time controlling my emotions at this time.
Something like, it's great you say you plan on working things out with me but in the meantime it doesn't buy you free storage. give hime 2 times to pick up the rest of his stuff and return of my house key. (he can walk from house, I bought it on my own so he feels no obligation to pay) since it appears you are making some sort of income, it is necessary you take some financial responsibility for your maritial obligations. since concilliation court is a requirment prior to divorce I will keep that appointment your choice is your choice. my priority are my 2 children, being healthy, preparing for my sons birth and keeping a safe place for us to live. I have planned on a social agency helping me for a few days after the birth then i will return to work. I have not decided on childcare, prefer my son be breast fed.
does that sound like doable boundaries? to state or write?
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
