WAS seeing reality?

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I tried acts of service for a very long time and only stopped those completely about 2 months ago. I have kept my distance for the most part this whole time but maybe I should ask her on dates and stuff like that now? I always was kind of a weeny when it came to hitting on women - or maybe too nice?


I have initiated only 3 or 4 conversations since the bomb and she has not initiated any. These are the ones that started out as legal talks and evolved into R talks. I have seen some emotion from her during these talks.


Should I be complimenting her some?



I told her I was done worrying about getting her back and I also told her that I dont want to be married to her anymore. I told her she was lying about her relationship with the EA and she lied. So I told her a few details that I had and she sat steaming with her arms crossed. Then she said that just like always I was blaming someone else for my problems! Can you beleive that? But I was ready for this kind of deflection from her.


I think I will have to reveiw my own thread so I can remember it myself! I did pay for 4 phone coach sessions but the last one was in August.