I may be next

[TrentC]

OMG she basically wants money from the credit line. She is basically hinting that she may try to work it out if I agree to this.

Bullsh!t, She wants to use you to feather her nest. Call her bluff. "I don't think it makes sense to run up such so much debt while you are deciding whether or not to remain in this marriage."

She says now that I am listening to you I'm not really sure.

I'm not sure what this means. So first she hinted that she might be willing to work on the R if you give her money, then changed her mind before you could give her an answer?

(I said so basically you want an advance on your settlement?)

That was pretty stupid, actually. You don't respond emotionally to this stuff. Your default answer should become "I'll have to think about it and get back to you."

I cannot stand this BS any longer!!!!!

DB'ing is hard work. You are free to decide that you don't want to do it, and file for divorce yourself.

Suggestions???

Start living up to your screen name.