Yellow rose is absolutly correct. My H acted much like yours, and yes my H was great toward our children and grandchildren just very distant and cold toward me. What I kept in my head that they treat the ones they are closest to the worst as they are feeling loaded with guilt. My H actually told me he felt and still feels a lot of guilt and he is still working through his MLC .
Hold on to hope that you will have a new and better M and follow DB. It was my saving grace. My H could decide he wants out tomorrow and I know I would be ok because of DB and everyone here that helped me through H's MLC behaviour.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
