Can I save my marriage?

[Gnosis]

I really feel like H wants to come home.

Stop feeling like this Britt. I don't mean to discourage you because you've been doing so well lately. There is a reason why this is called a roller-coaster ride. Don't get your hopes up.

He talks about our future constantly so I guess its just a matter of time

Ignore. Ignore. Ignore.
Act "as if.." or "whatever..." << Yeah, you girls are good at that!

I just dont know what is going to finally make him take the leap to talk R.

Here's a wise piece of advice. When this happens (because it will) and he indicates that he wants to give the R another chance.. as much as it's going to feel wrong and your heart jumps and beats at 240 BPM... TURN HIM DOWN.

What!!!??!!! Did I hear you right? Are you INSANE??!!!!

Turn him down. Yes, you heard me right and NO I am not insane.

Don't make it a hard turn down like, "Over my dead body..." Nope, all you say at that point is... "I dunno. I'm not sure. Let me to think about it." Then shut up. If he wants you he will work for you. If he thinks he's about to lose you at that point, he'll work harder.

This is all in the future so be prepared for it.