Nc~ Now I know why you are such a great friend. You give such perspective on things, thoughtful ones.
I would have never looked at it this way. I don't know if its true, because he's has always wanted a girl.. mind you and keep reminding him there is no crystal ball saying that the baby would be a girl.. but anyways, my mind is pretty much made up that I just don't want to have any more kids.
Yes I have to admit that I go through periods of wanting a girl, someone who may look like me and someone I could be friends with when I got older... and I get sad about it. But that is no reason to have another child, its just a purely selfish reason.
Anyways, Happy Birthday to my boy who is now 4 today.. time goes so fast.. I wish they stayed smaller just a little longer!
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
