Thanks for the validation Gardener, really feels good to get some known again lol! Your right I do think he is using all the self esteem stuff as an excuse to still play in Teddyland. As much as I'd like to help until he is really ready nothing I say will help! But of course I will if/when he asks me!
Thanks Bonny I will look that book up, ok I had a bad go at relate but I do know other folks have that have had good experiences!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!