I have the same fears and doubts as everyone else on here.
I wouldn't be where I was if it wasn't for my wife; she has to be willing to work on it too.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
I only hope one day to be able to give like you give so many others. I read and read and read everyone's sitch's but just don't feel like I have the knowledge to respond. I have a few times here and there, or just given my two cents, but not much. So good for you. Keep on, cause it brightens alot of peoples days.
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
I only hope one day to be able to give like you give so many others.
It's not that hard. I didn't know that much about this stuff when I responded to you the first time.
One of the perks of trying to teach is that it helps you reinforce in your mind what should be done.
And when in doubt, just agree with Coach and PDT.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
I keep trying to sell that to the fetching Mrs. Puppy, but somehow she's just not buyin' . . .
Puppy
It's not just you.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Thanks for coming to my thread. I think you are doing superbly!!! How has the communication w/the OM been since MIL left? It appears any talk of that disappeared after the MIL arrived, and left...
You are a gift around here. Give yourself a hug!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.