That's great Lola! I like your thoughts on control. Great stuff.

It does seem like turnarounds happen when the WAS doesn't feel pressured any more.

Maybe leave a door open for him, if just a friendship? His life events seem to have changed his perspective quite a bit. It doesn't seem to be affecting your PMA, which is good.


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK