(((Tristan)))

Thank you for your kind words...
I used to take it all to heart (and still do sometimes to be honest) and think everything was a reflection on me...
Now I know better and I also know I have no control over it...
At this point in time I just want to smack both of them wink

(((Puppy)))

As long as there is breath in me, my H isn't getting my son.
My son seems to think if he goes and lives with H, he won't be made to follow any rules and can pretty much do whatever he wants. (I am not disagreeing since I know how my H is acting)
So since I put my foot down on that matter, I am the b***h in his eyes.
I already let my H know that neither one of our sons will be visiting his place at any point in time (unless I am court ordered).
He can come and visit them at the place I am living or take them to the park, bowling etc...
But under no circumstances are they allowed to enter his den of sin.
As you know he hasn't bothered to take me up on any of those offers and hasn't fought me to allow them to go there either.
He lives in the exact moment he is in, so sad to say, I don't trust him with our boys right now. frown

(((Gardener)))
LOL...He said the parental unit crazy
I did ground S from almost everything (until further notice) and since he is off school this week for Thanksgiving break, he isn't liking me much right now.
He has already called me to see if he can go to the mall with some friends...
Not gonna happen plus my Mom is there so he is now under constant supervision.
We have court on Wednesday and he will have to do a drug test he doesn't know this and I am not warning him ahead of time either. If he fails the test he goes to detention...
I am at a loss that he is testing me this way however the enemy still isn't going to win. smile


May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~