As always, Trent is right. I found that GAL was the key. Be civil and happy around him, let him know life goes on without him, if he wants to talk then talk but be the one to end it. My H also said he wasn't happy and he didn't love me the whole marriage. I found that the harder I pushed and chased, the more negative and expansive his comments became.
Get out there and make yourself happy.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month
