Why does everyone in these situations always discount the presence of third parties in your lives?
People hear stuff, AV -- especially when they have a vested interest in you. Put more simply? HE'LL KNOW. It will get back to him.
Puppy
And it will mean more to him if one of his male friends says "I ran into your wife yesterday, and she was looking pretty good! How are things working out between you two?" than anything you can "show" him.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement