So I have been going dark for the last month or so and it seems to be driving him away more. He always tells me I never talk to him and ignore him at home etc... What am I suppose to do?
Are you going dark, or are you just GALing?
If he wants to talk about the R, do so; just don't get sucked into pointless arguments or throwing blame around.
Originally Posted By: Katie
I am confused because he says he doesn't feel anything for me and he hasn't been 100% happy our whole marriage of 8 years.
It's not possible to be 100% happy all of the time. It's an unreasonable expectation of any relationship.
Besides, he says he "feels nothing" but he's unhappy that you are apparently ignoring him? Seems like a disconnect. So what happens if you give him a little bit of quality time? Does his mood improve?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
