Coach, Yes, we did have that discussion a couple of times this weekend. I expressed my concerns with him coming back so soon and he expressed his concerns with being so far away. (His sisters house is 45 min from my house) He wants to try to make this work. He is worried that I will get tired of waiting on him to say 'I love you' and I will choose to leave this time. He has been initiating affection when I see him and said he was very happy spending the weekend here while I worked. He said he was very un-happy at his sisters and he realized just how much he stood to lose by leaving.
I feel ready to have him home. I think it would be hard to start working on our issues from 45 min away with very little time together. I want him here. I want to be a family again. I feel very confident that I have a good handle on my emotions. I am ready to stat piecing. My only concern is him allowing himself to over-analyze everything and over think this. He is not relaxing and just living, he always has something on his mind.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month