Take care of yourself. Save the e-mail. Look at his responses to you yesterday and look at his actions. He is not serious about working on the marriage.
Why did the OW send it to you?
You need to reinforce your boundary and ask for complete transparency. Don't let him put it back on you. His choices have consequences. "if you do __________, then this is the consequence_________." All up to him, don't own his problems.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
